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Toni Hawkins, M.A., MPH

Senior Trainer

Defuse De-Escalation Training

Toni Hawkins, M.A., MPH is a seasoned conflict management practitioner, mediator, and trainer with more than a decade of experience supporting individuals and organizations through complex, high-emotion situations. As a Senior Trainer with Defuse De-Escalation Training, Toni has led both large-scale and small-group de-escalation trainings for organizations across a wide range of industries, including major non-profits, public institutions, and Fortune 500 companies.

Her work centers on helping people navigate conflict safely, respectfully, and productively—especially in environments where stress, power dynamics, and communication breakdowns can escalate quickly.

Areas of Focus

Verbal de-escalation and workplace safety

Conflict management and dispute resolution

Mediation for workplace, organizational, and community conflicts

Difficult conversations and facilitated dialogue

Trauma-informed and dignity-centered approaches to conflict

Professional Background

Toni currently serves as an Associate Ombuds at the National Institutes of Health (NIH), where she supports employees and leaders in addressing workplace and organizational conflict. In addition to her role with Defuse and Pollack Peacebuilding Systems, she has spent many years working as a mediator, including providing services for court-connected cases, EEOC matters, and community disputes.

She holds a Master’s degree in Conflict Management and a Master of Public Health, along with a bachelor’s degree in Psychology. Toni is also credentialed as a civil neutral and arbitrator and has extensive experience facilitating dialogue in professional, academic, and community settings.

Training Philosophy

Toni’s training style is practical, grounded, and human-centered. She combines real-world mediation experience with evidence-based conflict resolution principles to help participants:

  • Stay calm under pressure
  • De-escalate tense interactions safely
  • Communicate clearly without confrontation
  • Protect relationships while addressing difficult issues

Work With Toni + the Defuse Team

Defuse delivers custom, instructor-led and virtual de-escalation training programs designed to reduce risk, improve communication, and strengthen workplace safety and culture.